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    01 September

    一眨眼,我们已老

     
      这两天,婚事不断。除了被媒体从华仔戏称为“华叔”的刘德华外,还有杨千嬅、袁泉以及依然“婚否”不明的黎明。
     
      那只紧牵着爱人的手,我想当时不仅感动了电视机前的我,还感动了许多人。毕竟,那个是为了他付出了24年青春和时间的女人。一个甘心如此站在他背后24年的女人,错过了这个,就再也没有了。还好,他还记得去珍惜。其实,结婚与否、有子女与否,并不是问题,重点是:他终于认了这个女人!
     
      不知道是否要将“华叔”归为我们这个年代的偶像,但看到这次的结婚名单,蓦然感叹:我们年轻年华已逝。就如那些曾经陪伴我们成长的明星们,也逐一走入了人生的另一阶段。选择单身也好,及时成婚也好,只要选择自己觉得幸福的方式就好了。曾经,80后是一个新生代的代名词,但到了现在,曾经的新生代都已经成为了他人眼中的叔叔阿姨了。新时代必定是90后甚至00后,01后的世界。世界是前进的,也许,明天我们甚至会看到许多更年轻的偶像步入婚姻的礼堂。也许,婚姻并非变老的标志,但却是人生步入一个崭新阶段的里程碑。
     
      在爱情中,也许我们曾经受伤,但在岁月的洗礼后,痛苦逐渐过去,只记得那些美好的时光。“原来曾经为一个人做过那么多疯狂的事,吃过那么多苦”,甚至怀疑是否放弃得太过轻易。相信爱情,那是美好且让人成长的;但不迷信爱情,在现实的爱情中慢慢学会坚韧。如果说,在更年轻的时候,我们面对的是一个有一个爱情故事,那么现在我们要开始面对一桩又一桩的婚事,倘若其中有你爱过的、在爱的甚至会一直爱下去的人。虽然那些婚事不需要你的誓言,虽然某些婚讯甚至会让你掉眼泪,但人生,就这样吧。

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    Lei Cakewrote:
    TO煦煦,证明:我们老了!~
    8 Sept.
    煦 煦wrote:
    看来大家现在都喜欢感叹呀...一个好尴尬的年纪,一个好困惑的阶段... ...
    8 Sept.
    Lei Cakewrote:
    是啊,渐渐已经忘记,那些曾经在年少轻狂时为爱所作的疯狂
    4 Sept.
    美丽 多wrote:
    原来曾经为一个人做过那么多疯狂的事,吃过那么多苦,甚至怀疑是否放弃得太过轻易......
    3 Sept.
    Lei Cakewrote:
    哈哈,只是有感而发,又有东西让我感悟青春已逝啊~
    2 Sept.
    对于这些婚讯,我没有感觉,
    2 Sept.

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